Manners and etiquette to respect in Cambodia

Religion: an important part of habits and customs

Buddhism has different guidelines to the ones we follow, and as it is the religion of the state, Cambodians follow these guidelines with a great deal of respect. They have been faithfully transposed to daily rituals. The monks are also extremely well respected: when you greet a monk, you should do it by placing both palms against each other whilst bowing your head. In the same way, monks cannot look a woman in the eyes or touch them, so do not try and shake their hand or get too close to them, else they might feel agitated. You are allowed to photograph them, but you absolutely must ask their permission beforehand.

If you are fortunate enough to attend a blessing by the monks, or if you sit down in a pagoda during your stay in Cambodia, please be aware that women are should not sit cross-legged, but instead sit with their knees together. The cross-legged position is reserved for men only, as it can be interpreted as a provocative act if a woman does it.

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Bettina Zourli

Everyday signs to bear in mind

This may be surprising as many people know and do this, but it is strictly forbidden to touch the top of the head of the Khmer people, even as an affectionate gesture, as it is considered rude. This is where the soul lies and just by touching it the soul can be interfered with.

Similarly, if you are invited into the home of a native, or if you find yourself in a place rarely frequented by tourists, be aware that it is customary to remove your shoes before entering, especially in pagodas and temples.

Some more advice for day-to-day life: ensure you are appropriately dressed during visits to places of worship by simply wearing a t-shirt and trousers; also, the Asian people do not like losing face or admitting that they do not know something, so they will often say 'Yes' even if they don't know the answer to your question!